Care through miscarriage & early pregnancy lossTime Compassion Guidance

Miscarriage & early pregnancy loss

I am here for you now, too.

I take time for you, your questions and your feelings.
Together we can explore the support you would like.

You are welcome to get in touch
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When nothing is as it was before

You do not have to walk this path alone.

The loss of a child means more than the end of a pregnancy. Plans, hopes and a journey already begun together change suddenly, too. Grief can feel particularly lonely when the child was not yet visible to others.

How I can support you

  • when people around you expect you to quickly get back to “normal”
  • when your child has died before, during or shortly after birth
  • when questions, fears or feelings of guilt are on your mind
  • when the loss puts strain on your relationship or family
  • when you are considering another pregnancy

Taking time while in shock

The news that a baby’s heart has stopped beating can initially feel impossible to comprehend. Provided there is no medical reason against it, you can take time to absorb information and calmly decide on the next steps.

Finding support

People you trust and a supporting midwife can help you make sense of the situation. I will talk with you about what comes next, the options available to you and what feels right for you.

Personal accounts

Stories that stay with us.

These personal stories can be moving. They also describe physical processes and the loss of a child. You decide whether and when you would like to read them. These accounts remain in German.

Sternchen

Ein früher Abschied, getragen von Vertrauen, liebevoller Begleitung und einem ganz persönlichen Ritual.

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Erfahrungsbericht meiner friedlichen kleinen Geburt

Eine Mutter erzählt von ihrer kleinen Geburt, dem bewussten Abschied und dem Vertrauen in den eigenen Körper.

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unser kleines Sternchen hatte wohl nicht genug Kraft um bei uns zu bleiben…

Von Vorfreude und Verlust – und davon, wie Zeit, Raum und Begleitung beim Abschied helfen können.

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Meine geliebten Engel, unverhofft seid ihr Teil unserer Leben geworden

Eine persönliche Geschichte über zwei kleine Leben, Trauer und die Spuren, die für immer bleiben.

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Da hatte Gott wohl andere Pläne

Ein Erfahrungsbericht über Ungewissheit, eine kleine Geburt und die Kraft, den eigenen Weg zu gehen.

Read story (in German)

Mach’s gut, kleines Upsi-Baby

Viel zu kurz und doch für immer: eine Mutter erzählt von Hoffnung, Liebe und einem unerwarteten Abschied.

Read story (in German)

These accounts reflect the parents’ personal experiences and views and are not medical advice. Appropriate treatment and aftercare must be discussed individually with a doctor.

Helpful organisations & resources

Read, listen and find support.

These services, conversations and resources were already collected on the previous website. Each entry now links directly to the organisation, article or audio episode. These resources are primarily in German.

Here for you personally

I am here when you need me.

You do not need to know what to say. You can simply get in touch.

Get in touch
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